WTF #20: Who Does She Think She Is? - Why I stopped performing for strangers
Nov 12, 2025Why I stopped performing for strangers — and what I do instead that actually sells.
This morning I checked in for my flight to Athens.
Business class. Of course.
The airport was packed.
Lines everywhere.
Not for me.
I walked straight up. No waiting.
That’s when I felt the looks.
At security, same thing.
Long line. Express lane for me.
Then the security officer called out,
“Miss, you don’t have to wait — come to the front.”
And a man muttered loud enough for everyone to hear:
“I wonder who this woman thinks she is…”
Here’s who I think I am:
💎 A woman who prioritizes time over approval.
💎 A woman who chooses empty seats + ease.
💎 A woman who welcomes VIP when it’s available.
💎 A woman who keeps learning, keeps growing, keeps giving.
💎 A woman who doesn’t need to perform to be valuable.
That sentence? It didn’t offend me.
It reminded me.
You pay a price when you leave average
Not everyone claps when you stop waiting in line.
Not everyone cheers when you start taking up space.
Especially if you’re a woman.
Especially if you’re not performing anymore.
It’s not “look at me” energy.
It’s I’m done hiding energy.
I don’t owe the internet my receipts
I don’t care to post how much I made.
Or what I spend it on.
Or how I travel.
Luxury is my standard —
and once something becomes who you are,
you don’t feel the need to talk about it anymore.
You live it. Quietly. Boldly.
Just like a real Chanel.
No one needs to know.
The ones who know, know.
Social media became a circus 🎪
And I quit the performance
👉 No more “value” for the algorithm.
👉 No more fake smiles in luxury chairs.
👉 No more posts when my soul has nothing to say.
If I didn’t run a business,
you wouldn’t find me online.
Not because I don’t love people.
Because I love real people.
Loud homes. Screaming kids. Laughs that shake the room.
Not fake intimacy on a screen.
The work speaks louder than I ever could
That’s what we’ve built inside Rich + Happy™.
Real results. Real clients. Real legacy.
Born from birth charts — not trends.
Built from truth — not performance.
So let them wonder…
Let them stare.
Let them whisper.
“Who does she think she is?”
She knows.
She already knows.
And she’s not waiting in line to prove it.
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